PrimeTimers of Kansas City

PTKC Mixer - At Missie B's & Dinner
2025-11-14 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-11-21 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-11-28 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-12-05 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-12-12 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-12-19 17:00 - 18:30 (America/Chicago) | Missie B’s, 805 W 39th St, Kansas City, MO, 64111, United States
30 years ago, Missie B’s opened as a gay owned and operated piano/karaoke bar. Since that humble beginning it’s become a leading gay KC hangout with special entertainment and drag shows. It’s not just a place to grab a drink, it’s an experience! So, join your fellow KCPT’ers to celebrate the end of the week and the start of the weekend. Maybe grab a few pals and head out for dinner at some point. We keep it loose and easy (hey, no jokes!) and we’ll see ‘ya there!
Gentlemen, as a reminder, we encourage you to protect yourself and fellow Prime Timers by getting the latest flu and Covid vaccines. Let’s stay healthy together. Thank you.

Potluck & Movie Night at Sam and Jim's in Leawood
2025-11-15 17:00 - 22:00 | Jim and Sam’s home, 9708 Lee Boulevard, Leawood, KS, 66206, United States
Man, this Potluck is gonna be a blast! Our beloved board members, Jim and Sam, are not only hosting their monthly movie night but they’re also sponsoring our November Potluck! I’d act all humble and appreciative but I know I’ll be drafted to help out. Still, it’s quite the endeavor! First we dine starting at 5 PM and then two movies will be shown simultaneously in their spacious residence and you can choose which one appeals to you. We’ll announce the movies as soon as, well, as soon as somebody tells me what they are. But here’s what’s gonna be fun. It’s a Chili Competition! That’s right, the entrées this evening are select chiles. We’ll do a quick tally of the votes and the winner will receive glowing accolades for life! FOR LIFE!!
Now you know the drill. Keep an eye out for the Punch Bowl invite and sign up for what you’re gonna bring to eat keeping our entrées in mind. Movie night is a fun evening and now this combination event will be stellar! Stay current with vaccines guys and be there!

Happy Hour Dinner at Grinders in Lenexa
2025-11-17 17:00 - 19:00 | Grinders, 10240 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS, 66216, United States
Okay, now Grinders’ menu just made me laugh. I mean how can you not get a good chuckle outta’ appetizer, sammies and entree names such as Big Ass Fries or Trailer Park Tots, Mommy Pastrami, and a monstrous stacked burger concoction called The Glutton!? Their drink menu is equally fun and amusing with some really interesting libations!
So, ‘nuf said. Get ready for a fun night and add Grinders to your calendar!
Oh, and stay healthy, fellas’. I know we write that all the time but we need to take care of ourselves and each other.

Coffee Talk at Denny's
2025-11-19 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-11-26 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-12-03 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-12-10 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-12-17 10:00 - 11:30 | Denny’s on Metcalf Avenue, 10480 Metcalf Avenue, Overland Park, 66212, United States
Okay. So, by now you might know that Denny’s is closing many restaurants nationwide. But how do WE respond to this outrage? “HELL NO, WE WON’T GO! HELL NO, WE WON’T GO!” So, be sure to join us at 105th and Metcalf with your fellow PTKC rebels! The food is fine, prices are reasonable, the coffee is hot and there’s a bunch of guys talkin’ away like crazy! Plus I finally subscribed to AARP so I get a discount! Nothing is sacred here so come and enjoy yourselves.
Oh, last thing. Cold and flu season is upon us. Guys, please make sure you’re current with vaccines. Don’t make me sic Vinnie, our Vaccine Fairy, on ‘ya!
See you there!

Dinner at True Food Kitchen on The Plaza
2025-11-19 19:00 - 21:00 | True Food Kitchen, 4749 Pennsylvania Avenue, Kansas City, MO, 64112, United States
We last visited True Food Kitchen in September and I tagged along that night. That was the right choice ’cause the food (and company) was great! We even had a really cute waiter! You really can’t quibble with a restaurant with this slogan. “Delicious by chefs, nutritious by science.” The food is locally sourced, largely organic and no seed oils are used in their kitchen. Now before you start the eye rolling take a gander at their menu. I mean, c’mon! Sourdough pizza, all sorts of salads and bowls and their entrées? Lasagne al pesto, grass-fed meatloaf, sustainably raised salmon, grilled tenderloin and I’ll just stop there. But, this place is definitely worth a visit!
So, let’s make it a great night! Oh, and do yourselves a favor, fellas, and get a jab or two in that arm. It’s cold and flu season after all so stay healthy!

PTKC Board Meeting
2025-11-20 18:00 - 20:00, 2025-12-18 18:00 - 20:00 | Sam E & Jim W’s Home, KS, United States
Monthly Board Meeting for PTKC. All members are welcome to attend. Plus, there’s food!

Lunch at Pegah's Restaurant - Shawnee
2025-11-21 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-11-28 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-12-05 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-12-12 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-12-19 12:00 - 13:30 | Pegah’s on Johnson Drive, 11005 Johnson Dr, Shawnee, KS, 66203, United States
Ah, the appeal of Pegah’s in Shawnee. Sure, the food is pretty darn good and plentiful. Yeah, the coffee is hot and reasonably potent (I’m lookin’ at you, Denny’s!) and we get a semi-private (well, sort of) back room. But the real charm of the place is when our favorite waitress snarls at us, “Hey old men – are you ready to order?!” You cannot put a price on that.
Clearly we really like this eatery as evidenced by the fact we all tend to hang around way past 1:30. We have a large crowd of PTKC’ers every Friday so it’s worth the jaunt. Parking can be a little tight but you’ll find a space – not to worry. So, join us!
Gentlemen, as a reminder, we encourage you to protect yourself and fellow Prime Timers by getting the latest flu and Covid vaccines. Thanks, guys.

Happy Hour Dinner at Brown & Loe in The River Market
2025-11-24 17:00 - 19:00 | Brown & Loe, 429 Walnut, Kansas City, 64106, United States
My, my. Ain’t we the swanky bunch. Now occasionally we go a tad upscale and Brown & Loe in KC’s River Market is the perfect venue. In the 1940’s, Brown and Loe was originally a produce broker in the Merchant’s Bank building. Fast forward to today and Brown and Loe Restaurant celebrates some really outstanding American comfort cuisine. This is a true local venue, evidenced by the restaurant’s allegiance to the resident farmers and food artisans who supply most of the restaurant’s fresh ingredients. Yeah, it’s a bit pricey, but not over the top nuts. You’re gonna enjoy this place.
I’ll see you there. (Oh, and keep Vinny the Vaccine Fairy happy!)

No Formal Event Tonight
2025-11-26
Gents, we’re not scheduling our usual Wednesday night dinner because it’s the day before Thanksgiving. We figure there’s gonna be a heckava lot of pre-holiday scrambling going on for those who are traveling or hosting the festivities. But back to normal next week!

Happy Hour Dinner @ J. Alexander's in Overland Park
2025-12-01 17:00 - 19:00 | J. Alexander’s Restaurant, 11471 Metcalf Avenue, Overland Park, KS, 66210, United States
Ah, J. Alexander’s in Overland Park. It’s a pretty classy joint ’cause they use the word entrée not entree (okay, I’m easily impressed). And, ’cause we PTKC’ers are a pretty classy group to Overland Park we go for Happy Hour and Dinner! Now drink-wise, J. Alexander’s has an impressive and extensive wine list and craft cocktails. Their dinner menu is totally keeping with the libations with multiple burgers and sandwiches, steaks, prime rib and seafood and other specialties. Plenty of choices!
So don’t let that Punch Bowl invite pass you by! Click, “Hell yeah, I’ll be there!” and join us!
Oh, and fellas? Vaccines matter for all of us so keep it healthy! Thank you!

Dinner @ Vivilore in Independence
2025-12-03 19:00 - 21:00 | Vivelore, 10815 Winner Road, Independence, MO, 64052, United States
Sometimes you just need to be refined and classy. I know what you’re thinkin’ but we can do it! Vivilore is a wonderful first date or romantic evening out locale. Does that mean that a collective bunch of PTKC men can’t have a great time there? Not at all!
Located in the heart of the historic Englewood Arts District in Independence, “Vivilore” comes from Latin; viva means life and lore means story — life story. The menu is beautifully crafted and very sophisticated. Take a moment and peruse their cuisine. Now be warned, no prices are listed. This place is not inexpensive. But every now and then we should indulge ourselves just a bit. Vivilore is the place to do that and exploring our own, unique “life stories” together is what makes Prime Timers so special. You’ll just sacrifice next month’s mortgage payment in doing so.
Oh, c’mon! I was getting entirely too sappy and some wry sarcasm was called for! Guys, just join us!

Happy Hour Dinner @ Beer Kitchen in Westport
2025-12-08 17:00 - 19:00 | The Beer Kitchen, 435 Westport Road, Kansas City, MO, 64111, United States
Now I love how Beer Kitchen describes itself: “If your heart races at the smell of a malty-sweet and robust imperial brown ale and tears of joy begin to fall at the sight of a 100% American beer burger stuffed with Kansas City-style burnt ends, lathered in house-made BBQ sauce, then Beer Kitchen is the place for you.” I mean c’mon! Heart racing! Malty-sweet brown ale! And tears of joys describing a beer burger stuffed with burnt ends?!? OMG! I am IN!
So, add Beer Kitchen to your calendar when the Punch Bowl invite rolls around in your direction and join us! (Oh, and please keep Vinnie the Vaccine Fairy Happy!)

A Christmas Carol @ The KC Rep
2025-12-10 19:00 - 20:30 | Spencer Theatre, 4949 Cherry Streeet, Kansas City, MO, 64110, United States
Instead of our weekly dinner, we have something special in mind. Our good friends at the ESU and their staunchest advocate, our own Jeff Schnabel, has a great offer that is a wonderful holiday must see! The Kansas City Rep at Spencer Theatre, UMKC Campus, is presenting Dicken’s A Christmas Carol with a truly stellar cast. The ticket price is only $31.20 which is a highly discounted price. If you would like a ticket to this classic event, call the KC Rep box office at (816) 235-5771. Ask for Rhiannon Minster and tell her you are with the ESU Group to purchase ticket(s) to A Christmas Carol on December 10th. Purchase with a credit or debit card. Pick up your ticket(s) in the lobby at the Will Call desk under the name “ESU Group.” Our seats will be in blocks of 4, 3, 2, or singles near the stage. The box office hours are Mon-Fri 9 am to 5 pm. If there is no answer, just leave a message and Rhiannon will return your call.
Parking: Free parking is available in the parking lot on the east side of Spencer Theatre or additional free parking is available at the UMKC Cherry Street Parking Garage (5009
Oak St.) on the fifth floor which has a skywalk to Spencer Theatre on level 6.
Folks, be sure to take advantage of this wonderful event. If you have any questions just call the most lovable Jeff Schnabel (816) 878-1239 or email: jschnabelkc@gmail.com.

2025 Christmas Party & Potluck Dinner
2025-12-13 17:00 - 19:00 | Kansas City United Church of Christ, 205 W 65th Street, Kansas City, MO, 64113, United States
Santa is comin’! Well, okay. Not so much for me because I’m Jewish but for the rest of you guys? A PTKC XMAS IS ON!! Last year we had a big crowd of celebrants accompanied by some great food! We’ll supply the entrée (turkey & ham – yes!) and you fine folks will bring the rest of the fixins’! We’re at the same terrific location in Brookside and Santa is rumored to make an appearance. Bring a “white elephant” gift as we’ll be exchanging presents. Well, yet again, not me. I’ll just light a menorah and nibble on a few cold latkes.
Stay tuned for the Punch Bowl invite, fellas! Jim Wright is sending it out early this year so be sure to sign up!

Hour Hour Dinner @ Cooper's Hawk Restaurant & Winery
2025-12-15 17:00 - 19:00 | Cooper’s Hawk Restaurant & Winery, 1900 NW Tiffany Springs Road, Kansas City, MO, 64154, United States
Who knew? A Cooper’s Hawk is an actual bird! So, ornithologists rejoice! You can wing your way (sorry, couldn’t resist) north, enjoy fine food and libations and have one great evening with your PTKC pals. Cooper’s Hawk has a great Happy Hour menu called Wine O’Clock with really tempting appetizers, drinks and a full menu for dinner if you’re so inclined. So, be there!
Remember, guys. Stay healthy and get a jab or two! We appreciate it!

Dinner @ Hamburger Mary's in Kansas City
2025-12-17 18:30 - 20:30 | Hamburger Mary’s, 3700 Broadway Blvd, Kansas City, MO, 64111, United States
What?! You’ve never been to Hamburger Mary’s?!? Talk about a fun, festive and flamboyant dining experience! This is THE place for that made even better by joining your PTKC pals! The menu is full of good stuff including appetizers, 10 different burgers, wraps, salads, sandwiches and a slew of sides! Plus tonight there’s an added bonus ’cause it’s HamB-I-N-G-O Mary Night at 7 PM. This charity bingo game ain’t your grandma’s bingo game. It’s full of sass and sauciness galore. Playing bingo is optional but if you’d like to indulge and contribute to charity, it’ll cost ‘ya $10.00 for a book of 10 bingo cards. All the proceeds go to charity! Pretty nifty, huh? Also, keep in mind that we need to be there at 6:30 to be seated. PTKC has reserved a table for 10 lucky guys so be sure to slap “YES!” on the Punchbowl invite when you get it!
You’re gonna have fun! Join us there but first be sure to get a jab or two in that arm to keep healthy! Thanks, guys! Now don’t be a “drag” and join us!
