PrimeTimers of Kansas City

Tri-City Gathering - St. Louis, MO
2025-05-10 15:00 - 18:00 (America/Chicago) | Saint Mark’s Lutheran Church, 6337 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO, 63117, United States
We’re bringing members from Kansas City, Mid-Missouri and St. Louis together for a terrific event in St. Louis. Food, fun, sights to visit and the opportunity to meet and socialize with our peers across the state. The event takes place on Saturday, May 10th from 3 – 6 PM. But wait, there’s more! If you want, we’re making a weekend out of it and we have various options available. Read on for the details.
A. Travel and Lodging Options

Driving

Option 1a. (Saturday Arrival, Host Stay):

Drive to St. Louis on Saturday morning, arriving by 3:00 PM.
Stay overnight with a St. Louis Prime Timers member.
Return home on Sunday.

Option 1b (Saturday Arrival, Hotel Stay):

Drive to St. Louis on Saturday morning, arriving by 3:00 PM.
Stay one night in a hotel.
Return home on Sunday.

Option 1c (Friday Arrival, Hotel Stay):

Drive to St. Louis on Friday.
Stay two nights in a hotel.
Attend the Gathering on Saturday.
Return home on Sunday.

2. Amtrak Train ($78 Round Trip):

Option 2a (Saturday Arrival, Hotel or Host Stay):

Take the Saturday morning train from Union Station in Kansas City (departs 8:40 AM, arrives 2:20 PM). Please note that the train can be late. Just keep this in mind.
Take an Uber to the Gathering.
Stay one night in a hotel OR with a St. Louis member.
Return to Kansas City on Sunday (trains leave at 8:10 AM or 3:11 PM).

Option 2b (Friday Arrival, Hotel Stay):

Take the Friday morning train (8:40 AM) OR evening train (4:05 PM) from Kansas City.

Stay two nights in a hotel.
Attend the Gathering on Saturday.
Return to Kansas City on Sunday (trains leave at 8:10 AM or 3:11 PM).

Things to Do in St. Louis:

LGBTQ+ Exhibit at the History Museum
The Gateway Arch
Catholic Cathedral & Basilica
Holocaust Museum
St. Louis Aquarium (at Union Station)
The Old Courthouse (Dred Scott decision site)
St. Louis Ferris Wheel (at Union Station)

Our Group’s Plan (Sam, Jim, Doug, and others):
We are choosing Option 2b:

Taking the Friday morning Amtrak train to St. Louis.
Staying two nights at the Drury Inn at the Arch.
Attending the Gathering on Saturday.
Returning on the Sunday afternoon Amtrak train (4:05 PM).

This allows us to enjoy the train ride together, avoid potential train delays on Saturday and have time for sightseeing. This will be a really great event. Chose what works best for you and keep an eye out for the Punchbowl invitation for more details!
Finally, gentlemen, just consider your vaccine and health status. There’s still lots of buggy stuff out there. Let’s all stay healthy together.

Dinner & Drinks at Scores Bar & Grill
2025-05-12 17:00 - 19:00 | Score Sports Bar & Grill, 9100 East 35th Street South, Independence, MO, 64052, United States
‘Ya know? We really like this place. Very gay friendly, cool, welcoming vibe and great grub and drinks! Personally, I really like their Seafood Trio. I mean, would anyone turn away calamari, fried shrimp and crab cake balls (don’t go there guys. Way too easy! )?
So, get ready for a really enjoyable evening with good food, fine friends at Scores!
As always, be aware of your respective vaccination status, folks. Just a suggestion.

Coffee Talk @ Denny's
2025-05-14 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-05-21 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-05-28 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-06-04 10:00 - 11:30, 2025-06-11 10:00 - 11:30 | Denny’s in Merriam, KS, 9001 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Merriam, KS, 66202, United States
Now a couple of things about this Denny’s on Shawnee Mission Parkway. First off, the wait staff absolutely loves us! Second, they give us a private room. Pretty cool, huh? Sure, it’s not haute cuisine but that doesn’t matter. There’s plenty of reasonably priced breakfast/brunch dishes on the menu. We usually have a great crowd here and the conversation is lively. You’ll enjoy it. So, join us!
Gentlemen, as a reminder, we encourage you to protect yourself and fellow Prime Timers by getting the latest flu and Covid vaccines. Let’s stay healthy together. Thank you.

FREE Happy Hour Concert at The Kauffman Center!!
2025-05-14 17:00 - 19:00 | Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts, 1601 Broadway Blvd., Kansas City, MO, 64108, United States
Yes, PTKC’ers, that’s right. Add inspiring music to the middle of your week with a FREE Happy Hour concert presented by the musicians of the Kansas City Symphony. This program features two pieces by famous jazz trumpeter and composer Wynton Marsalis. A Fiddler’s Taleincludes a tango and a “devil’s dance” and finishes with “The Blues on Top,” while At the Octaroon Ballssports movement titles like “Creole Contradanzas,” “Blue Lights on the Bayou” and “Rampart Street Row House Rag.” Join us in the beautiful Kauffman Center Brandmeyer Great Hall lobby for a drink starting at 5:00 p.m., then attend a short and casual concert starting at 6:00 p.m.
Guys, these tickets go fast! We have ten tickets already reserved for those who’d like to sit cheek by jowl with pals. But fear not. If they’re gone just click the link and reserve your own. Again, these sell out quickly! For those who want one of the ten reserved tickets, keep an eagle eye out for the Punchbowl invite!
https://tickets.kcsymphony.org/25happyhour4

PTKC Board Meeting
2025-05-15 18:00 - 20:00 | Sam E & Jim W’s Home, KS, United States
Monthly Board Meeting for PTKC. All members are welcome to attend. Plus, there’s food!

Lunch at Pegah's Restaurant - Shawnee
2025-05-16 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-05-23 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-05-30 12:00 - 13:30, 2025-06-06 12:00 - 13:30 | Pegah’s on Johnson Drive, 11005 Johnson Dr, Shawnee, KS, 66203, United States
Ah, the appeal of Pegah’s in Shawnee. Sure, the food is pretty darn good and plentiful. Yeah, the coffee is hot and reasonably potent (I’m lookin’ at you, Denny’s!) and we get a semi-private (well, sort of) back room. But the real charm of the place is when our favorite waitress snarls at us, “Hey old men – are you ready to order?!” You cannot put a price on that.
Clearly we really like this eatery as evidenced by the fact we all tend to hang around way past 1:30. We have a large crowd of PTKC’ers every Friday so it’s worth the jaunt. Parking can be a little tight but you’ll find a space – not to worry. So, join us!
Gentlemen, as a reminder, we encourage you to protect yourself and fellow Prime Timers by getting the latest flu and Covid vaccines. Thanks, guys.

PTKC Mixer - At Missie B's & Dinner
2025-05-16 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-05-23 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-05-30 17:00 - 18:30, 2025-06-06 17:00 - 18:30 | Missie B’s, 805 W 39th St, Kansas City, MO, 64111, United States
30 years ago, Missie B’s opened as a gay owned and operated piano/karaoke bar. Since that humble beginning it’s become a leading gay KC hangout with special entertainment and drag shows. It’s not just a place to grab a drink, it’s an experience! So, join your fellow KCPT’ers to celebrate the end of the week and the start of the weekend. Maybe grab a few pals and head out for dinner at some point. We keep it loose and easy (hey, no jokes!) and we’ll see ‘ya there!
Gentlemen, as a reminder, stay healthy, please! Vinnie our PTKC Vaccine Fairy knows all!

Summer is comin' Picnic & Potluck at Shawnee Mission Park!
2025-05-18 12:00 - 16:00 | Shawnee Mission Park – Shelter #7, 7900 Renner Road - Shelter 7, Shawnee, 66219, United States
We did this last year and really had a great time! Hamdan is once again manning the grill and we will frolic in the great outdoors. Sounds pretty darn good to me! We’ve reserved Shelter 7 for our great group. You know the PTKC Potluck drill, guys. Keep an eye out for the Punchbowl invite, sign up for what succulent sustenance you’re bringing and don’t forget a tube of sun screen! Oh, and fellas? We always need a few people to help with set up and clean up. The more the merrier here, so let us know if you can pitch in.
Fun is guaranteed as we take in beautiful Shawnee Mission Park! Oh, and stay healthy, guys and we’ll see ‘ya there!

Dinner & Drinks at Gael's Public House & Sports
2025-05-19 17:00 - 19:00 | Gaels Public House & Sports, 5424 Troost Ave, Kansas City, MO, 64110, United States
Another PTKC’er favorite is Gael’s. Located between the Plaza and Brookside in Kansas City, Gaels Public House and Sports is the creation of Derrick Bachman, a long-time fixture in Kansas City’s food & entertainment scene. Lucky for us, Gael’s serves really good drinks and an innovative and very tasty menu to go along! Even better it’s a fun and welcoming joint. Not bad, huh?
Get ready for a really great evening with your fellow PT’ers! You’ll enjoy it – promise!
I know, I know. You get tired of reading this. But it’s still important. Guys? Just be aware of your health and vaccine status. Our collective thanks!

Cascone's Italian Restaurant
2025-05-21 17:00 - 19:00 | Cascone’s Italian Restaurant, 3733 N. Oak Trafficway, Kansas City, MO, 64116, United States
I feel a song comin’ on!!
“When PrimeTimer’s dine, it’s all mighty fine, at Cascone’s!” “They’ve got Gnocchi, Linguini and Chicken Spedini at Cascone’s!”
First off, my sincere apologies to composer Harry Warren, lyricist Jack Brooks and the smooth, suave Dean Martin for mangling this 1953 song (RIP, gentlemen). But it all works! Cascone’s is a quintessential Italian-American restaurant with great food, drinks and wonderful hospitality.
Stretch waist bands required here, guys! But you’ll like the company and the food. And, that, my friends, is most definitely amore! See you there!

No Drinks & Dinner Tonight
2025-05-26 17:00 - 19:00 | KS
Gentlemen, in honor of Memorial Day, it was decided not to hold a dinner this evening. But, we’ll see you soon at other May get-togethers.

Unforked in Westwood, KS
2025-05-28 17:00 - 19:00 | Unforked in Westwood, KS, 4719 Rainbow Blvd., Westwood, KS, 66205, United States
Wow. Plenty to dig, dine and drink at Unforked! From Surf ‘n Turf, Citrus Crunch Chicken, Thai Dye Burgers, and (my favorite!) 24-hour Truffle Fries! Their list of cocktails is equally appealing! What’s not to to like?
So, add tonight to your respective calendars and get ready to have a great evening with us!
I know, I know. But I need to write this. Gentlemen, just be aware of everyone’s health and consider your vaccination status. Thank you.

Move Night at Sam and Jim's!
2025-05-31 19:00 - 21:00 | Jim and Sam’s home, 9708 Lee Boulevard, Leawood, KS, 66206, United States
Yup, fellas! It’s the Two-Fer Movie night at Sam and Jim’s in Leawood! Two, count ’em, TWO movies will be shown simultaneously in their spacious residence and you can choose which one appeals to you. Now one movie is “ARISTOTLE AND DANTE DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF THE UNIVERSE.” Based on a best-selling novel, two Latino teenage boys living in 1987 El Paso have a chance meeting at a local swimming pool that develops into a meaningful and loving relationship. This 2024 film has a “Fresh Tomatoes” 88%/95% positive critic/audience rating and a 7.1 rating on IMDB. Your fellow PTKC’ers, Jim K. and Larry H., recommended this film and we thank them for the suggestion! The other feature is our “Mystery Offering.” Why is is a mystery? This is what happens when certain people don’t tell me what it is! But, as soon as I know, you’ll see it posted right here.
Our hosts graciously provide popcorn and few nibbles, water and ice tea so BYOB if you’re so inclined. Movie night is a fun evening so stay healthy, guys, and join us!

Happy Hour Dinner - Grand Street Cafe!
2025-06-02 17:00 - 19:00 | Grand Street Cafe – Plaza, 4740 Grand Ave., Kansas City, MO, 64112, United States
Wow. I didn’t know that Grand Street Cafe, on the Country Club Plaza, has been around for over 30 years. It’s a pretty classy joint, locally owned and operated and serving “Modern American Cuisine.” No, I don’t know what that is either but food and drinks are great, the service is spot on and it’s a really good place to socialize and dine! Perfect for PTKC’ers who crave a somewhat more “upscale” experience. Now fellas, don’t be put off by the Grilled Fillet Mignon price. There are plenty of other, more reasonable and equally delicious options available. Now if you really want that dish (I do!) just call it Chateaubriand, take a deep breath and order it. We won’t blame you.
Join us! (Oh, and stay healthy, guys!)

Dinner at Meddys in Brookside
2025-06-04 19:00 - 21:00 | Meddys, 6301 Brookside Plaza, Kansas City, MO, 64113, United States
So, gentlemen? A few of your fellow PTKC’ers asked for a later dining start time. While many of us are retired, several are still working guys and starting in June, we’re scheduling our Wednesday night dining escapades to start at 7:00 PM. My maternal grandfather used to tell me that civilized people don’t dine before 8:00 PM. Prior to meeting him for an evening repast, I would sneak a couple of PB&J sandwiches. But back to Meddys. This restaurant has been around since 2014 and has garnered a large following! It’s authentic, healthy Mediterranean fare at reasonable prices. Portion sizes are generous and there’s a wide selection of signature cocktails. There’s even vegan and gluten-free options. Nice, huh?
So, let’s meet at Meddys for a meal! Remember, it’s a 7:00 PM start time! (Stay healthy, guys!)

Kansas City Pride - 2025!
2025-06-06 17:00 - 22:00, 2025-06-07 12:00 - 22:00, 2025-06-08 11:00 - 17:00 | Kansas City PrideFest 2025 at Theis Park, 4701 Oak Street, Kansas City, MO, 64110, United States
Whoa. Where did the year go? Man, it moves fast! But not fast enough for you KC PrideFest 2025 lovers and you know who you are! It’s at Theis Park across from The Nelson and we’d love to see you there. Even better, PTKC has a booth for all three festival days and we’re lookin’ for volunteers to staff it! You’ll schmooze with the crowds (decked out in your Pride finery) extoll the benefits of PTKC and maybe, just maybe, encourage a few guys to join us! This will be fun! The festival runs from Friday, June 6 through Sunday, June 8 and includes The Pride Parade on Saturday. We need at least two volunteers at the booth for all three days. Of course, feel free to volunteer for more than one shift.
Friday, June 6 – Opening Night – 5 to 10 PM – Two 2.5 hour shifts – We need four volunteers (5 – 7:30 PM & 7:30 – 10 PM)
Saturday, June 7 – Festival Day Two – 12 to 10 PM – Two 3 hour shifts and one 4 hour shift – We need six volunteers (12 – 3 PM, 3 – 6 PM & 6 – 10 PM)
Sunday, June 8 – Festival Day Three – 11 AM – 5 PM – Two 3 hour shifts – We need four volunteers (11 AM – 2 PM & 2 PM – 5 PM)
So, guys, stay tuned for the Punch Bowl invite so you can sign up. And, if you can’t, no worries! Gather some pals and just enjoy the festivities, food and frolic – not to mention some great performances! Do check out the PrideFest website for more details.

Happy Hour Dinner - Corner Cafe in Riverside!
2025-06-09 17:00 - 19:00 | The Corner Cafe, 4541 NW Gateway Ave., Riverside, 64150, United States
Man, is this a study in contrasts or what? Last week, we dined at Grand Street Cafe and tonight we’re imbibing and dining at Corner Cafe in Riverside! Casual, comfortable and operating since 1983. Now interestingly enough, there had always been a small restaurant at the “Corner” in Riverside, Missouri, but before 1983 it had changed names and hands several times. Many of the locals wanted to see a return to the old-style cafe that had existed there. Enter Ed and Kathi Rule. They had never been in the restaurant business before, but always felt they knew what good food was all about and their following grew into loyal customers. It’s American comfort food at its best. Burgers, sandwiches, salads, grilled tenderloin – there’s something there for everyone at reasonable prices. I, for one, would never say no to a world-class Rueben!
You’ll enjoy this place and we’d love to see you there! Join us, guys.

Dinner at Crushed Red in Overland Park
2025-06-11 19:00 - 21:00 | Crushed Red, 10640 Roe Avenue, Overland Park, Kansas, 66207, United States
Okay. I’m gonna apologize up front for what follows and to anyone who appeared in the musical, “Gypsy.”
“Lettuce entertain you!” “Lettuce drive you wild!” “We’re gonna eat some salad and maybe sing a ballad, ’cause we know you’re versatile!!”
So, Crushed Red is a really good place to grab a bite. Yeah, you’re going to eat greens but you can dress ’em up with all types of tasty toppings and mix ins! Sam, Jim Wright and Doug really love this place (so please blame them). They also serve really good sammies! The always friendly staff custom prepares your meal while you’re standing there and the menu names are fun and intriguing. From “Welcome Back Cobber” to “Play Gloria” it’s pretty much up to you. Just check out their menu.
“And, if you’re real good, I’ll make you feel good I want your spirit to climb!” “So lettuce entertain you!” “We’ll have a real good time, yes sir!”
‘We’ll have a real good time!”
Be there!
