MON 5:00 PM - Golden Happy Hour at Just John's Nightclub - RSVP encouraged
2024-09-26 17:00 - 20:00, 2024-09-30 17:00 - 20:00, 2024-10-24 17:00 - 20:00, 2024-11-28 17:00 - 20:00 (America/Chicago) | Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue, St. Louis, MO, 63110, United States
Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for:
Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM.
Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Michael D will know who is attending. Arrive any time during happy hour and enjoy the evening with fellow Prime Timers. Complimentary food is served during the happy hour.
The coordinator for this event is Michael D. Prime Timers can be found in a group in the rear of the bar or out on the patio in nice weather. If you don’t see us, ask the bartender.
Afterwards, around 8:00 pm, you are welcome to join Michael and some of the others for a bite to eat at Chao Baan restaurant, just down the street from Just John’s Bar, in the Grove neighborhood.

FREE ZOOM TALK: GHOST TOWNS IN MISSOURI AND BEYOND
2024-09-26 19:00 - 20:00 | IL
Find out what St. Louis Prime Timer grew up in a town that is now a ghost town!

Abandoned buildings, paranormal folklore, and historic relics cast an eerie and intriguing atmosphere over Missouri’s ghost towns. Although the phrase “ghost town” might call to mind the tumbleweed-strewn roads and abandoned wooden storefronts of the Old West, Missouri’s ghost towns tell a different tale. A detour through these rural locales reveals stories of a changing world and devastating acts of nature. Depopulated or simply forgotten, many have fallen into disrepair. Others still have remnants and artifacts as proof of their former heydays. Some maintain a sparse population with a firm hold on their heritage. This talk will cover Missouri’s ghost towns and will look at some curious ghost towns in other states.

All Prime Timers will be sent the Zoom Link for this free talk by Doug Schneider.

PTSL Tower Grove Pride
2024-09-28 11:00 - 18:00, 2024-09-29 11:00 - 17:00 | Tower Grove Park, 4257 Northeast Dr, St. Louis, MO, 63110, United States
Please join us at our booth at Tower Grove Pride, Saturday and Sunday, September 28th, 11:00am – 6:00pm and September 29th, 11:00am – 5:00pm.
Join the fun for St. Louis’ 11th annual community-focused Pride Festival. Located in Tower Grove Park, near the corner of Arsenal and Grand. There will be 300+ booths, 2 stages of local music, food booths and trucks. Games and activities are also planned.

LGBT Lunch and Learn at Age Smart in Swansea, Illinois
2024-10-01 12:30 - 15:00 | Age Smart – Swansea, IL, 7 Bronze Pointe South, Unit B, Swansea, IL, 62226, United States
You might be interested in attending the “LGBT Lunch and Learn” being sponsored by the local Area Agency on Aging, Age Smart in Swansea, Illinois.

Charles Koehler has spoken at one of Age Smart’s events and they are very LGBT friendly, progressive and inclusive.
This Lunch & Learn is free and will be held Tuesday, October 1 at 12:30pm with a guest speaker discussing LGBT+ advocacy.

RSVP is required. Call 618-222-2561.
Charles will be there, and he hopes that you might attend too (it is a free lunch and a way to show your support and encourage them to hold more of these LGBT-specific events for older folks like us).

PTSL Monthly Potluck Downtown, hosted by Tom Bolman, Tom Kellermann, and Dave Turner
2024-10-05 16:00 - 21:00 | IL
Please join us for our next PTSL potluck at the Syndicate building in Downtown St. Louis. Potluck will start at 4:00pm and end at 9:00pm. Your hosts will be Tom Bolman, Tom Kellermann, and Dave Turner. The main entrees will be BBQ pulled pork and chicken, and soft drinks will be provided. Please bring a side dish, salad or dessert.
A movie (to be announced) will be shown at 6:30pm. Written invitations with parking details will be sent to all attendees. RSVP to the usual address:rsvp@primetimersstl.org

Venture out with us for a real Country Turkey & Ham Dinner
2024-10-06 11:00 - 18:00 | Immaculate Conception Parish, 5912 South Hwy 94, Augusta, 63332, United States
Mitch and I have gone to this for years. They offer a wonderful feast with all the trimmings.
We eat in the basement of the old school house and there are large bowls on the tables of the best homemade cranberry-orange relish I have ever had. There are also bowls of apple butter and your drink is included.
Date/time: Sunday, October 6th. – start serving at 11 am.
Dinner tickets: $16.00
We arrive just before 11 and get our tickets. Then we have time to enjoy the activities as well as purchase locally made bake goods and jars of cranberry-orange relish to take home.
Immaculate Conception Parish, Augusta, MO
5912 South Hwy 94, Augusta, MO 63332
(636) 482-4455
https://sv-ic.org/immaculate-conception/
This is an enjoyable 45-mile drive for a hearty midday meal.
Please join us, you’ll be glad you did.
Eric & Mitch

2024 Black Pride Accolades at Missouri History Museum
2024-10-11 18:00 - 21:00 | Missouri History Museum, 5700 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO, 63112, United States
The time has come to honor and celebrate the individuals who uplift and empower our Black LGBTQIA+ community in St. Louis. 🌟 Join us on Friday, October 11th, 2024, at the Missouri History Museum for the 2024 Black Pride Accolades, where we will highlight the champions who lead, inspire, and make a lasting impact.
We invite YOU to RSVP and nominate someone who deserves recognition in our community!
🔗 RSVP Today: https://bit.ly/rsvp-accolades
What to Expect: An evening of celebration, powerful speeches, and recognition of those who have worked tirelessly to uplift our community.
We look forward to celebrating with you and honoring the amazing individuals who make our community stronger every day.

Do you know someone who embodies excellence in arts, entrepreneurship, health, advocacy, and more? This is your opportunity to highlight their work and dedication.
Nominate them for an Accolade in one of the following categories:

Arts & Entertainment – Celebrating those who use their creativity to inspire and entertain.
Entrepreneur of the Year – Honoring trailblazing business owners in our community.
Health – Recognizing individuals who go above and beyond to promote health and wellness.
Pioneer – Highlighting those who are paving the way for a brighter future.
Legend – Our highest honor for community members who have given over 10 years of dedicated service.
Professional Growth – For those who help others thrive professionally.
Youth Advocate – Recognizing advocates for the youngest voices in our community.
Ally Award – Honoring allies who stand by our side in solidarity.
Education – Celebrating advocates for equitable education within our community.
Lifetime Achievement – Our most prestigious award, honoring over 20 years of service.

Nominate here ➡️ https://bit.ly/2024BPA

Band Together Concert
2024-10-12 19:00 - 21:00 | 560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Ave, University City, 63130, United States
The next Band Together performance will be the Fall Concert, Saturday, October 12, 2024 from 7:00pm until 9:00pm at 560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63130. Band Together concerts are always free.

PTSL Sunday Brunch
2024-10-17 12:30 - 14:30 | Breakfast and Burgers, 8411 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, 63123, United States
Join us for Sunday Brunch at Breakfast & Burgers located at 8411 Gravois Road, St. Louis MO 63123. We will meet there at 12:30pm.
RSVP by November 15 to let us know you are attending. There is no limit on attendees at this time.

IN-PERSON: Autumn Weekend Retreat & Festival at Wilderness Lodge (Lesterville, MO on the Black River) – Reservations Required
2024-10-18 15:00 - 2024-10-21 00:00 | Wilderness Lodge Resort, 2331 County Road 342, Lesterville, MO, 63654, United States
We’re going again to experience Fall in the Ozark countryside and enjoy the “Arcadia Valley Mountain Music Festival”. Every time we do this trip, the great mix of friends and new friends along with the hospitality of the lodge has us looking forward to our next visit.
This is an easy in-state (less than 2 hours from St. Louis) destination. The cost is reasonable with their all-in-one pricing: Accommodations/Breakfast/Lunch/Appetizers & Dinner.
Pick the nights/dates that work for you (the Festival is on Saturday) and make reservations soon (they have a very lenient cancelation policy).
Hint: If you reserve a Hilltop cabin, try to get an upper unit. Walking to the downstairs unit is challenging.
Mitch and I are booked for arrival on October 18th and departing on the 21st. (3 nights).
Wilderness Lodge details and reservations: https://enjoywilderness.com
It’s a beautiful time of the year to get away and connect with friends.
Email us at rsvp@primetimersstl.org to let us know you are coming and to be able to look out for you!
Please join us,
Eric Johnson & Mitch Millner

IN PERSON: Glorious Fall Riverboat Ride from Grafton, IL
2024-10-20 13:30 - 18:00 | Hakuna Matata Boat Cruise/Tour, 215 W. Water St, Grafton, IL, 62037, United States
ADVANCED RESERVATIONS ARE HIGHLY RECOMMENDED
GLORIOUS FALL RIVERBOAT RIDES Fall Foliage Cruises along the Palisading Bluffs of the Mighty Mississippi Bluffs is a truly breathtaking experience! Whether you choose to sip on wine, bring a picnic lunch or just enjoy the view, our crew will be sure that your experience is wonderful!! This will be a fun time on the water. Please check your calendar and lock in your reservation online as soon as possible.
When: Sunday, October 20, 2024 1:30PM
Limited seating – Reserve your ticket online ASAP. Note that you have a choice of booking the lower deck or upper deck. We sit on lower deck. Book early to insure you get the deck you want.
Where: Hakuna Matata Boat Cruise/Tour
215 W. Water St. Grafton, IL 62037, (618) 786-7678
Parking is Free and ample at the dock.
Cost: FOR SENIORS is $18.00 per person + tax
To make Reservation: go to graftonharbor.com. On the screen, click the “BOAT CRUISES” button. Then page down and click on the large “CLICK HERE TO BOOK NOW” button. Then click on “DAY CRUISES” Then click on
One Hour Sunday Funday Cruise!, Lower Level, May – November, 2024 1 hour
Or you can make your reservation by phone at the number provided.
NOTE: PTSL normally sits in lower level. You can click upper level if you want to. Click on the Info button on either one of the entries(upper deck or lower deck) for more information, and to reserve click on the “BOOK” button.
Contact: In addition to purchasing tickets, please also RSVP with Prime Timers at RSVP so that we know you are coming and whether or not you are going to brunch.
Hosted by Tom Kellermann
Boat Info:
The Hakuna Matata (means “no worries”) is an all-weather, 53’ foot, 49-passenger Coast Guard licensed tour boat. Seating and cafe tables are on both the upper and lower decks. The first level is fully enclosed and climate controlled with large windows. The upper deck is a huge open-air patio offering 360-degree views of the river, bluffs, islands and historical points of interest along the way. Boat amenities include restrooms and the TIKI BAR that offers a cash bar and light snacks. Please arrive 30 minutes prior to departure time. Please arrive at 1:30 for boat ride. The boat leaves at 2:00 PM.
Cancellation policy: No refund provided for booking cancellation or no-show.
Suggested activity before the Sunday Funday Cruise
Have brunch at 11:00am at the Grafton Oyster Bar, 215 W. Water St. Grafton, IL 62037, (618) 786-7678 ( just upstairs from boat launch) in Grafton. Caution: The Grafton Oyster Bar is first come, first serve and do not take reservations. We are allowing 2 hours, which should be sufficient, to get through the Oyster Bar and downstairs to the boat ramp by 1:00pm. The boat leaves at 1:30pm.

Hidden in Plain Sight: LGBTQ+ History of the 1904 World’s Fair
2024-10-22 11:00 - 13:00 | Missouri History Museum, 5700 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO, 63112, United States
Charles Koehler’s new presentation “Hidden in Plain Sight: LGBTQ+ History of the 1904 World’s Fair” has been added to the Missouri History Museum Calendar:
https://mohistory.org/events/worlds-fair-lgbtq-history
It explores the intersection of the Museum’s two major current exhibitions – “Gateway to Pride” and “The 1904 World’s Fair”.
The presentation will be on Tuesday, October 22nd at 11:00 a.m. in the Museum’s Main Auditorium.
Please show Charles your support and attend this great event!

Enjoy the Autumn Air with Eric and Mitch
2024-10-24 11:30 - 13:00 | LaChance Winery, 6035 2nd Street, Kimmswick, MO, 63053, United States
Join us for another lunch at LaChance Winery of Kimmswick.
When: Thursday, October 24 Time: 11:30 am
It’s a short drive just 20 miles from St. Louis.
We’ll dine in a large circa 1770 historic log cabin frequented by Ulysses S. Grant and Paul Henry.
As well as the regular menu, they offer their house specialty on Thursday – fried chicken.
FYI – the restaurant is accessible by ramp from the big parking lot.
Please RSVP if you are going to attend – ejohnson10316@yahoo.com
After lunch, you can stroll or drive to the over two dozen shops.
https://www.gokimmswick.com/
LaChance Winery of Kimmswick
6035 2nd Street, Kimmswick, MO
Driving directions to Kimmswick from I-270 and I-55
Head southwest on I-55 S
Take exit 186 toward Imperial/Kimmswick
Turn left at Imperial Main St
Turn right at US-61/US-67
Turn left at MO-K
Drive straight into town.

PTSL Board of Directors Meeting
2024-10-24 18:00 - 19:00 | IL
Any PTSL member is welcome to attend our Board of Directors Meeting on October 24, 2024 at 6:00pm.
If you wish to attend, but are not a board member, you will need to contact Randy Martin at ranmar@live.com or (314) 954-4455 for an invitation and Zoom link to participate.

Making Gay History Time Travel
2024-10-27 15:00 - 16:00 | Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum, 36 Millstone Campus Dr., St. Louis, 63146, United States
Please show your support for the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum’s upcoming program, Making Gay History Time Travel with Eric Marcus. This unique event will take place on Sunday, October 27, 2024, from 3:00 to 4:00 pm in the Museum’s auditorium. Our St. Louis LGBTQ Chamber is working with the Museum to get the word out and build the attendance that this deserves to have.
This special program will highlight the often-overlooked experiences of LGBTQ+ victims during the rise of the Nazi regime and the Holocaust. Eric Marcus, the founder and host of the award-winning Making Gay History podcast, will provide a sneak preview of his groundbreaking 10-episode series. Through archival interviews, Eric will bring to life the voices of those who lived through this painful chapter of history.

FREE ZOOM TALK: Earthquakes in St. Louis and Missouri
2024-10-28 19:00 - 20:00 | IL
Since 1804, the year St. Louis became part of the United States, St. Louis has suffered damage from 12 earthquakes, and has felt many other earthquakes. The state of Missouri experienced 328 quakes in the year 2022. Doug Schneider will talk about earthquake preparedness, earthquake insurance, the St. Louis seismograph, how to interpret the Richter Scale, and why Missouri earthquakes feature liquification and California earthquakes do not. And he will talk about the Missouri earthquake that made the Mississippi River run backwards.

All Prime Timer members will be emailed a link to this free Zoom talk.

Enjoy the Fall Foliage and Cool Morning Air
2024-10-30 11:00 - 13:00 | Barn Restaurant, 1015 S Sappington Road, Crestwood, 63126, United States
Mitch and I want you to join us for a pre-Halloween Brunch at The Barn – Crestwood.
1015 S Sappington Road, Crestwood, MO 63126 (near I-44 & Big Bend Blvd.)
Beautiful view of the backyard and pond. Free parking on the lot.
(Wonderful breakfast, lunch or dessert) The Barn – Crestwood, St. Louis, MO (crestwoodbarn.com)
When: Wednesday, October 30
Time: 11:00 am
The Barn restaurant is located on the scenic grounds of the Thomas Sappington House Museum property. It is a restored, furnished Federal-style home built in 1808. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places. It is the oldest brick home in St. Louis County.
It is also next to the Grant’s Trail cyclists and walkers path.
Please RSVP if you are going to attend – ejohnson10316@yahoo.com
Let’s do it in The Barn,
Eric & Mitch

November Potluck at Sam & Willie's House
2024-11-02 15:00 - 19:00 | IL
Come to the November PTSL Monthly Potluck!
Sam and Willie will host the November potluck at their home in St. Charles. The address/location will be sent as a reply email to the RSVP.
There will be a limit of 30 guests at this event.
The main dish to be provided will be announced, as well as coffee and drinks. Please bring a side dish, salad or dessert. Alcohol is BYOB.
RSVP (accepts only) by Thursday, October 31 and tell us what potluck side dish, appetizer, salad or dessert you will bring.

Lunch N Learn LGBTQ
2024-11-05 12:30 - 14:00 | Age Smart – Swansea, IL, 7 Bronze Pointe South, Unit B, Swansea, IL, 62226, United States
AgeSmart Lunch N Learn LGBTQ Meeting will be held on Tuesday, November 5, 2024 from 12:30 – 2:00pm at 7 Bronze Pointe S, Ste B, Swansea, IL 62226.
Reservations are required. Call (618) 222-6521 to reserve your space.

FREE ZOOM TALK: "HAUNTED PLACES IN ST. LOUIS"
2024-11-06 19:00 - 20:00 | IL
Rivers are conduits of paranormal activity. St. Louis has plenty of rivers, and plenty of paranormal activity. Join Doug as he reports on paranormal activity today – places where people have experienced the unsettling presence of spirits. This includes haunted homes, parks, theaters, libraries, roads, and staircases. He will give advice on how to behave when spirits are in your home. He will review St. Louis paranormal history: the Ouija board that wrote a novel, the family with heads as big as pumpkins, the accused witch whose body was chopped into pieces to keep her from rising from the dead.
All Prime Timers will be emailed a Zoom link for this free talk.

PTSL Autumn Celebration Meeting
2024-11-09 13:00 - 16:00 | St. Mark’s Lutheran Church, 6337 Clayton Road, Clayton, 63117, United States
Join us for our Autumn Celebration Meeting at St. Mark’s Lutheran Church located at 6337 Clayton Road, 63117.
Speaker – Gary Bell, Founder and Artistic Director – Stray Dog Theater
Refreshments after the meeting.
Please RSVP to let us know who is attending.

PTSL Sunday Brunch at Breakfast & Burgers
2024-11-17 12:30 - 14:30 | Breakfast and Burgers, 8411 Gravois Rd, St. Louis, 63123, United States
Please join us for our PTSL Sunday Brunch on Sunday, November 17, starting at 12:30pm, at Breakfast & Burgers, 8411 Gravois Road, St. Louis, MO 63123.
RSVP to let us know how many are attending.
We hope you can join us!

VISIT TO EXHIBIT AT WASH U: ST. LOUIS ARCHITECTURE 1930'S TO 1970'S
2024-11-25 11:00 - 15:00 | Mildred Lane Kemper Art Museum, #1 Brookings Dr, St. Louis, 63130, United States
Doug Schneider is coordinating a visit to the Mildred Lane Kemper Museum at Wash U. The museum is free, but you will have to pay for the nearby parking garage. Optional lunch on the Wash U campus afterwards.
Design Agendas: Modern Architecture in St. Louis, 1930s–1970s This exhibit explores a remarkably destructive, creative, dynamic, and conflicted time in STL’s architectural and urban history.
Please RSVP to Doug at ParadiseDouglas@gmail.com if you plan to attend.

St. Louis Pride Committee/BPSL Thanksgiving Dinner
2024-11-28 14:00 - 18:00 | St John’s Episcopal Church, 3664 Arsenal St, St. Louis, MO, 63116, United States
Community Thanksgiving Dinner at St. John’s Episcopal Church. Dinner starts at 2:00pm on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 28th, 2024.
Pride STL along with Vivent Health, MEPSI, TransParent, Black Pride St. Louis, The Shades Project, PROMO, St. John’s Episcopal Church, and Tower Grove Pride are sponsoring a dinner at St. John’s Episcopal Church, 3664 Arsenal Street from 2:00pm to 6:00pm on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 28th, 2024. The groups are offering dine in, pickup or delivery for anyone who wanted a meal, or was in need of one.

Black Pride St. Louis "Drag Me to Brunch" Event
2024-12-01 11:00 - 15:00 | COCA, 6880 Washington Ave, St. Louis, MO 63130, St. Louis, 63130, United States
Black Pride St. Louis is thrilled to invite you to Ming Lee’s Drag Me to Brunch: Doll House Edition on December 1, where we’ll be celebrating the unsung heroes of HIV in St. Louis. Get ready for a fabulous brunch experience with amazing drag performances, great music, and a community united for a cause!
Event Details:
📅 Date: Sunday, December 1
🕒 Time: 11 AM – 3 PM
📍 Location: COCA, 6880 Washington Ave, St. Louis, MO 63130
This isn’t just any brunch—it’s a celebration of resilience, unity, and support for those affected by HIV. Hosted by the one and only Pebbles Mazzarite, with music by DJ Anglea and performances from an incredible lineup of queens, this is an event you won’t want to miss!
🎟️ Get Your Tickets Now: Eventbrite Link
Join us to make this World AIDS Day unforgettable.

Washington University Focus Group Discussion
2024-12-02 14:00 - 17:00 | IL
The Washington University Department of Mental Health is asking for volunteers to attend a focus group discussion on Monday, December 2, at 2:00pm. Brian Carpenter, a professor at Washington University in the Department of Psychological & Brain Sciences is launching a new research project that’s focused on understanding people’s experience with ageism. We’re doing focus groups around town, and we’re putting together a couple of them that will focus on the intersection between ageism and other kinds of bias and discrimination, based on race, gender, and sexual orientation. For more information, click on the link below:
https://wustl.box.com/s/222oc86zeqlj98h1xjwjwibizvq43xje
