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Who We Are

Prime Timers St. Louis (PTSL) is a social organization open to mature men (21 years and older) who self-identify as gay, bisexual or trans men.  We provide fellowship through social, educational, and recreational activities in a safe, positive and supportive environment.
PTSL is a non-profit, non-political social organization and a local chapter of PrimeTimers® Worldwide.

  We Value Diversity and Inclusion!

Contact Us

Email:    Contact Form
Phone: (314) 467-0445 (Missouri)
USPS:    Prime Timers St. Louis
                  87
Grasso Plaza #241
                  Saint Louis, MO 63123
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Note:  Address is a PM Box only.  Phones are usually answered by voice mail.  Please leave a message. Calls will be returned as quickly as possible.

What We Do

Our members create a variety of events and activities so every member can participate and enjoy friendship and fellowship with other older gay, bisexual or trans men.
Our Membership meetings are held four times a year.  Please check our calendar for specific dates and times. These meetings include social fellowship along with educational topics that are relevant to our membership.  Other activities include:
        • Brunches, Potlucks, Dining out, and picnics
        • Movies, Plays, and Game Nights
        • Local trips to museums, walking tours, and other points of interest
        • Outdoor Activities such as cycling, camping, hiking and golf
        • Out of Town Trips by carpooling, bus, and train
        • Day Trips to the countryside and nearby towns

See upcoming events below or click Calendar for a list of events by month.

Click here for our Prime Timers St. Louis brochure.

How to Join or Renew Your Membership

NEW:  We now offer an online application.  You can also pay your dues online. Click HERE to pay using Square.
If you prefer the in-person method, click on our membership application.  Print the PDF, fill it out, and bring it along with your payment to an upcoming event or you can mail both to the USPS address in the “Contact Us” section.You can also scan your completed application and email to ptsl@primetimersstl.org.
For more information on how our chapter operates, click on:  Bylaws   and/or   Policies and Procedures.
 

Events

Scroll down this page for more events. If you are looking for an event in the future, you might want to click “Calendar” at the top of this page and then select the month you are looking for.

PTSL Annual December Holiday Potluck Banquet at St. Mark’s Church

Please join us for our December PTSL Holiday Potluck Banquet. This event will be held at St. Mark's Church located at 6337 Clayton Road, 63117. PTSL will supply the main entrees.  We ask that you…

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St. Mark’s Lutheran Church, 6337 Clayton Road
Clayton, 63117 United States
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Gateway Men’s Chorus Upcoming Performance Dates

Gateway Men's Chorus Upcoming Performance Dates The GMC performance, “And To All A Good Night”,  will be Saturday December 6, 2025, at 8:00pm and Sunday, December 7, 2025  matinee at 3:00pm, in the auditorium at Second…

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Gateway Men’s Chorus and Dinner Afterward

Tom Kellermann and Tom Bolman are inviting you to sit with us together in the auditorium at Second Presbyterian Church, 4501 Westminster Place, St. Louis, MO 63108, just before the Gateway Men’s Chorus matinee performance…

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Second Presbyterian Church, 4501 Westminster Place
St. Louis, 63108 United States
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MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged

Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Michael D will know who is attending.  Arrive…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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Black Tulip Chorale Annual Holiday Performances

The Black Tulip Chorale presents its annual holiday performances at 8:00pm, Friday, December 12 and at 3:00pm on Saturday, December 13, at Union Avenue Church. The program will celebrate LGBTQ communities, honor moments in LGBTQ…

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Union Avenue Church, 733 Union Ave
St. Louis, MO 63108 United States
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Black Tulip Chorale Annual Holiday Performances

The Black Tulip Chorale presents its annual holiday performances at 8:00pm, Friday, December 12 and at 3:00pm on Saturday, December 13, at Union Avenue Church. The program will celebrate LGBTQ communities, honor moments in LGBTQ…

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Union Avenue Church, 733 Union Ave
St. Louis, MO 63108 United States
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Band Together Concert

Time:  7:30pm - 9:30pm Place - 560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Avenue, University City MO 63130 Tickets - www.bandtogetherstl.com  

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560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Ave
University City, 63130 United States
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It’s Birthday Monday at Just John Club

Just John Birthday Monday takes place on the third Monday of each month from 5:00pm to 9:00pm. All patrons with birthdays this month are gifted a bucket of domestic beer or a bottle of sparkling white…

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Just John Club, 4112 Manchester Ave
St. Louis, 63110 United States
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FREE TRIVIA NIGHT VIA ZOOM

FREE TRIVIA NIGHT VIA ZOOM Tuesday, December 16     7:00 PM to 8:30 PM   This will be a non-competitive trivia night.  No prizes, no awards.  All questions will be multiple choice.  Presenter is Doug…

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PTSL Saturday Night Out

Can’t make it to Just John Happy Hour because it’s on a Monday night? This new event might be for you!  PTSL Board Member-at-Large Joe Tumblin is hosting PTSL Saturday Night Out so we can…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged

Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Michael D will know who is attending.  Arrive…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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It’s Birthday Monday at Just John Club

Just John Birthday Monday takes place on the third Monday of each month from 5:00pm to 9:00pm. All patrons with birthdays this month are gifted a bucket of domestic beer or a bottle of sparkling white…

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Just John Club, 4112 Manchester Ave
St. Louis, 63110 United States
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PTSL Saturday Night Out

Can’t make it to Just John Happy Hour because it’s on a Monday night? This new event might be for you!  PTSL Board Member-at-Large Joe Tumblin is hosting PTSL Saturday Night Out so we can…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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PTSL Lunch at Pierce Creek

PTSL Lunch at Pierce Creek Break out of your winter doldrums with dining, visiting, and shopping! Join PTSL at this new destination fast-casual style restaurant, featuring an on-site bakery, deli, market, restaurant, and bar, on…

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MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged

Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Michael D will know who is attending.  Arrive…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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