Who We Are
Prime Timers St. Louis (PTSL) is a social organization open to mature men (21 years and older) who self-identify as gay, bisexual or trans men. We provide fellowship through social, educational, and recreational activities in a safe, positive and supportive environment.
PTSL is a non-profit, non-political social organization and a local chapter of PrimeTimers® Worldwide.
We Value Diversity and Inclusion!
Contact Us
Email: Contact Form
Phone: (314) 467-0445 (Missouri)
USPS: Prime Timers St. Louis
87 Grasso Plaza #241
Saint Louis, MO 63123
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Note: Address is a PM Box only. Phones are usually answered by voice mail. Please leave a message. Calls will be returned as quickly as possible.
What We Do
Our members create a variety of events and activities so every member can participate and enjoy friendship and fellowship with other older gay, bisexual or trans men.
Our Membership Celebrations are held four times a year. Please check our calendar for specific dates and times. These meetings include social fellowship along with educational topics that are relevant to our membership. Other activities include:
Brunches, Potlucks, Dining out, and picnics
Movies, Plays, and Game Nights
Local trips to museums, walking tours, and other points of interest
Outdoor Activities such as cycling, camping, hiking and golf
Out of Town Trips by carpooling, bus, and train
Day Trips to the countryside and nearby towns
See upcoming events below or click Calendar for a list of events by month.
Click here for our Prime Timers St. Louis brochure.
How to Join or Renew Your Membership
NEW: We now offer an online application. You can also pay your dues online. Click HERE to pay using Square.
If you prefer the in-person method, click on our membership application. Print the PDF, fill it out, and bring it along with your payment to an upcoming event or you can mail both to the USPS address in the “Contact Us” section.You can also scan your completed application and email to ptsl@primetimersstl.org.
For more information on how our chapter operates, click on: Bylaws and/or Policies and Procedures.
Events
Scroll down this page for more events. If you are looking for an event in the future, you might want to click “Calendar” at the top of this page and then select the month you are looking for.
PTSL October Potluck Downtown
PTSL October Potluck Downtown Saturday October 3 @ 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM Please join us for our October PTSL Potluck. This event will be held in the Club Room of the Downtown residential building…
Richmond Heights, 63117 United States
PTSL Sunday Dinner at Diamond Mineral Springs
Diamond Mineral Springs 1 W Pocahontas Road Highland IL 62249 Please RSVP to rsvp@primetimersstl.org to let us know that you will attend.
Highland, IL 62249 United States
LGBTQ Lunch and Learn
AgeSmart LGBTQ Lunch and Learn Meeting will be held on Tuesday, from 12:30 – 2:00pm at AgeSmart, 7 Bronze Pointe S. Suite B, Swansea IL 62226 Reservations are required. Call (618) 222-6521 to reserve your…
Swansea, IL 62226 United States
MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged
Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Joe Tumblin will know who is attending. Arrive…
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
Wilderness Lodge Resort Getaway
Join your fellow PTSL members and their guests Friday, October 16, to Sunday, October 18, for an easy (less than 2 hrs from St. Louis) getaway to Wilderness Lodge, in the Ozarks, near Lesterville, Missouri.…
Lesterville, MO 63654 United States
It’s Birthday Monday at Just John Club
Just John Birthday Monday takes place on the third Monday of each month from 5:00pm to 9:00pm. All patrons with birthdays this month are gifted a bucket of domestic beer or a bottle of sparkling white…
St. Louis, 63110 United States
PTSL Board of Directors Meeting on Zoom
Our next PTSL Board of Directors Meeting will be held on Zoom on Thursday, October 22, 2026. The meeting begins at 6:00pm, and is open to any PTSL member. A Zoom Invitation will be sent…
THE “COLLECTED” EXHIBIT AT THE MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM
OCTOBER 29, 2026 10:30 AM to 12:30 PM THE “COLLECTED” EXHIBIT AT THE MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM With optional lunch afterwards
St. Louis, MO 63112 United States
PTSL Saturday Night Out
PTSL Saturday Night Out Can’t make it to Just John Happy Hour because it’s on a Monday night? This new event might be for you! PTSL Board President Joe Tumblin is hosting PTSL Saturday Night…
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
LGBTQ Lunch and Learn
AgeSmart LGBTQ Lunch and Learn Meeting will be held on Tuesday, from 12:30 – 2:00pm at AgeSmart, 7 Bronze Pointe S. Suite B, Swansea IL 62226 Reservations are required. Call (618) 222-6521 to reserve your…
Swansea, IL 62226 United States
PTSL Lunch at Pierce Creek
PTSL Lunch at Pierce Creek Celebrate Autumn with dining, visiting, and shopping at Pierce Creek! Join PTSL at this destination fast-casual style restaurant, featuring an on-site bakery, deli, market, restaurant, and bar, on Saturday, November…
Creve Coeur, 63141 United States
Richmond Heights, 63117 United States
MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged
Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Joe Tumblin will know who is attending. Arrive…
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
PTSL Autumn Celebration
PTSL Autumn Celebration November 14, 2026 Come to our PTSL Autumn Celebration 2026 planned for Saturday, November 14, at 1pm. at St. Mark’s Lutheran Church located at 6337 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO 63117. RSVP…
Clayton, MO 63117 United States