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Who We Are

Prime Timers St. Louis (PTSL) is a social organization open to mature men (21 years and older) who self-identify as gay, bisexual or trans men.  We provide fellowship through social, educational, and recreational activities in a safe, positive and supportive environment.
PTSL is a non-profit, non-political social organization and a local chapter of PrimeTimers® Worldwide.

  We Value Diversity and Inclusion!

Contact Us

Email:    Contact Form
Phone: (314) 467-0445 (Missouri)
USPS:    Prime Timers St. Louis
                  87
Grasso Plaza #241
                  Saint Louis, MO 63123
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Note:  Address is a PM Box only.  Phones are usually answered by voice mail.  Please leave a message. Calls will be returned as quickly as possible.

What We Do

Our members create a variety of events and activities so every member can participate and enjoy friendship and fellowship with other older gay, bisexual or trans men.
Our Membership Celebrations are held four times a year.  Please check our calendar for specific dates and times. These meetings include social fellowship along with educational topics that are relevant to our membership.  Other activities include:
        • Brunches, Potlucks, Dining out, and picnics
        • Movies, Plays, and Game Nights
        • Local trips to museums, walking tours, and other points of interest
        • Outdoor Activities such as cycling, camping, hiking and golf
        • Out of Town Trips by carpooling, bus, and train
        • Day Trips to the countryside and nearby towns

See upcoming events below or click Calendar for a list of events by month.

Click here for our Prime Timers St. Louis brochure.

How to Join or Renew Your Membership

NEW:  We now offer an online application.  You can also pay your dues online. Click HERE to pay using Square.
If you prefer the in-person method, click on our membership application.  Print the PDF, fill it out, and bring it along with your payment to an upcoming event or you can mail both to the USPS address in the “Contact Us” section.You can also scan your completed application and email to ptsl@primetimersstl.org.
For more information on how our chapter operates, click on:  Bylaws   and/or   Policies and Procedures.
 

Events

Scroll down this page for more events. If you are looking for an event in the future, you might want to click “Calendar” at the top of this page and then select the month you are looking for.

Band Together Concert

Time:  7:30pm - 9:30pm Place - 560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Avenue, University City MO 63130 No ticket required. Band Together concerts are free.  For more information go to website at www.bandtogetherstl.com

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560 Music Center, 560 Trinity Ave
University City, 63130 United States
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Grey Fox Pub, 3503 S. Spring Avenue
St. Louis, 63116 United States
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MON 5:00 PM – Golden Happy Hour at Just John’s Nightclub – RSVP encouraged

Join your fellow Prime Timers at Just John’s for: Golden Happy Hour from 5 to 8 PM. Please respond (accepts only) to rsvp@primetimersstl.org so that your host Michael D will know who is attending.  Arrive…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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Lunch at Hendel’s Restaurant

NOTE: This event is completely full. No further RSVPs can be accepted. May is the month to enjoy indoor as well as alfresco dining. Lunch 11:15 a.m., Tuesday, May 12 at Hendel's restaurant, 599 Rue…

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Hendel’s Restaurant, 599 Rue St. Denis Street
Florissant, 63031 United States
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Free zoom talk: STE. GENEVIEVE: MISSOURI’S OLDEST CITY

Free zoom talk: STE. GENEVIEVE: MISSOURI'S OLDEST CITY Tuesday, May 12 from 7:00 PM to 8:00 PM Ste. Genevieve is Missouri’s first European settlement, older than St. Louis.  The town celebrates its French heritage in…

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Missouri Botanical Garden: The Art of HYBYCOZO

Mark your calendars for the night of Thursday, May 14, at 7:30pm, for PTSL Night at the Missouri Botanical Garden, featuring the outdoor light show: Patterns in Nature: The Art of HYBYCOZO. Join us for…

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Missouri Botanical Garden, 4344 Shaw Blvd
St. Louis, 63110 United States
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Spring Weekend at Wilderness Lodge 

Spring Weekend at Wilderness Lodge  Join your fellow PTSL members and their guests for a getaway to the country. We're again headed down to the Ozark Mountains near Lesterville, Missouri. The fresh springtime air and…

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Wilderness Lodge Resort, 2331 County Road 342
Lesterville, MO 63654 United States
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PTSL Sunday Brunch

Note: There is a limit of 12 persons at this event. Molly's 816 Geyer Avenue St. Louis MO 63104 Please RSVP the number of persons in your party to rsvp@primetimersstl.org.

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Molly’s, 816 Geyer Avenue
St. Louis, 63104 United States
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It’s Birthday Monday at Just John Club

Just John Birthday Monday takes place on the third Monday of each month from 5:00pm to 9:00pm. All patrons with birthdays this month are gifted a bucket of domestic beer or a bottle of sparkling white…

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Just John Club, 4112 Manchester Ave
St. Louis, 63110 United States
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Brunch at the Crestwood Barn Restaurant

Brunch 10:30 a.m., Thursday, May 21 at The Crestwood Barn, 1015 S Sappington Road, Crestwood, MO 63126 *near I-44 & Big Bend Blvd.*  (Limit of 12) The restaurant is in a beautiful park-like setting with…

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Barn Restaurant, 1015 S Sappington Road
Crestwood, 63126 United States
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PTSL Board Meeting

Our next board meeting will be held on Thursday, May 21 2026, at 6:00pm on Zoom. All board members will receive a Zoom link. If any members wish to attend, contact Randy at secretary@primetimersstl.org for…

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Lunch and House Tour at the Oakland House Museum in Affton

Lunch and House Tour  11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m., Tuesday, May 26 at Oakland House Museum, 7801 Genesta St, St. Louis/Affton, MO 63123. This country estate is like discovering a secret garden. It's magical that…

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Oakland House Museum, 7801 Genesta Street
Affton, 63123 United States
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Get your Kicks: Route 66 Centennial Exhibit at the Museum of Transportation

Get your Kicks: Route 66 Centennial Exhibit at the Museum of Transportation Wednesday, May 27 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM Museum Address is  2933 Barrett Station Rd, , Kirkwood Missouri The “Roads, River, Rooms,…

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Museum of Transportation, 2933 Barrett Station Rd
Kirkwood, 63122 United States
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PTSL Saturday Night Out

Can’t make it to Just John Happy Hour because it’s on a Monday night? This new event might be for you!  PTSL Board Member-at-Large Joe Tumblin is hosting PTSL Saturday Night Out so we can…

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Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63110 United States
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Lunch N Learn LGBTQ

AgeSmart Lunch N Learn LGBTQ Meeting will be held on Tuesday, from 12:30 – 2:00pm at AgeSmart, 7 Bronze Pointe S. Suite B, Swansea IL 62226 Reservations are required.  Call (618) 222-6521 to reserve your space.

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Age Smart – Swansea, IL, 7 Bronze Pointe South, Unit B
Swansea, IL 62226 United States
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